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Poll #1356595 Is it "party hardy" or "party hearty?"

Your significant other goes out of town partying overnight and doesn't call you nor answer your calls until 9:00 the next morning. What do you do?

Kill them
0(0.0%)
Punish them
0(0.0%)
Get angry
1(3.1%)
Plot your revenge
3(9.4%)
Chastise them
3(9.4%)
Sulk
1(3.1%)
Shrug it off
7(21.9%)
Party yourself
6(18.8%)


(You can make your own guesses as to whom I am referring.)

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esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 03:12 pm (UTC)
I think "kill them" qualifies there. :)
esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 03:12 pm (UTC)
That would be the "shrug it off" option, if they can find their own way out of the gutter.
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esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 03:32 pm (UTC)
I was aware.
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esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 05:26 pm (UTC)
Here's the skinny - he left in the afternoon, and I just said to call me later. He didn't, and that's fine, but whenever we're not together we at least call at bedtime just to say goodnight. I called him twice and got his voicemail, so I figured he was just out having a good time. I kind of expected a voicemail this morning, but didn't hear anything until he called at 9:00, at which time I pointed out to him that if roles had been reversed, he would have been LIVID with me and probably not spoken to me for several days. Me, I can let it go, but I felt pleasure about pointing that out to him. :)
jsciv
Feb. 27th, 2009 07:26 pm (UTC)
More proof that you two are perfect for each other and that if I were in a relationship with either of you I'd run screaming for the door. :)
esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 08:34 pm (UTC)
I'm amazingly laid back about stuff (admittedly sometimes too much), and although 90% of the time he's fine and dandy, when he gets mad he gets MAD. We're yin and yang, baby! :)
jsciv
Feb. 27th, 2009 07:24 pm (UTC)
Heh, that was my question too.
moonpuppy61
Feb. 27th, 2009 03:19 pm (UTC)
Don't Kill, they suffer more by living longer.

Sorry no good, real advice on this.
esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 03:33 pm (UTC)
I think long-term suffering is good advice. :)
buddykat
Feb. 27th, 2009 05:05 pm (UTC)
I agree, long-term suffering is the best advice possible. Oh, and don't forget the Guilt! Guilt can be a wonderful thing.
esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 05:26 pm (UTC)
Just living with him is suffering enough. I'll have to work at more guilt. :)
robdamnit
Feb. 27th, 2009 03:54 pm (UTC)
If he was partying overnight waht was he even doing up at 9:00 in the morning?

Or was he still up at 9:00 and that's when he noticed that you called?
esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 05:27 pm (UTC)
I'll take "option B" for $300, Alex.
frozenbroken
Feb. 27th, 2009 06:12 pm (UTC)
oh no, as of this writing, "chastise them" and "shrug it off" are tied at no.1!
montrealais
Feb. 27th, 2009 06:14 pm (UTC)
I voted for both. Chastise in the sense of "Honey, I really wish you wouldn't do that, it makes me worry, please call me if you're going to stay out like that" and then shrug it off.
esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 08:34 pm (UTC)
What? You don't go out and party on your own? You dawg. *smooch*
esprix
Feb. 27th, 2009 08:35 pm (UTC)
And here I was just fishing for justification for killing him. ;)
akirashima
Feb. 27th, 2009 09:53 pm (UTC)
i voted for all of the above.

though honestly i am a combination of the above. chastise if i had no clue they would be gone like that due to me being paranoid and would be up the night thinking they were dead on the side of the road. (cheating or other things like that would not even occur to me. whats that say about me) it would just be horrible scenario after scenario. when they got home i would hug them tight and then yell at them and then tell them how they made me worry and that there is this thing called a phone. i would sulk for a while and be sad and mad off and on for a few days then it would just all breeze away. i never forget but i forgive awfully easy in all but the worst circumstances.
esprix
Mar. 1st, 2009 07:12 am (UTC)
He's forgiven, now that he's been properly punished. ;)
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esprix
Mar. 1st, 2009 06:56 am (UTC)
We're sort of the same way. A call when he lands/arrives would be nice, but not necessary. We always say goodnight, though, so when he doesn't pick up the phone I worry a little, but mostly am just disappointed, because I know the overwhelming chance is that he's just having a good time and didn't hear the phone ring. Usually, though, he'll call when he gets the message, even if he just leaves one back. Of course I left my phone on next to the bed just in case, but when I didn't get a message overnight, and didn't get a call until the next morning, I was a little upset (but really, I just milked it for punishment, of course). The flip side is that if I'd done that to him, he'd have been so angry his head would have exploded, so, you know, what's good for the goose and all that. :)
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