Q is calling his sister to see if she's ok with him bringing me home for Christmas. If she says she isn't, he has to decide if he's going without me or not, and how he'll deal with it. Ugh.
Edited to add: COP OUT! She says that since it's their parents house, he has to get permission from his mother. HA! Like that'll happen. She refused to answer him when he asked her for her own opinion. She says that his priorities "aren't the family's" and that if she lets him come with me without their mother's permission it looks like she's taking sides against their mother.
He's not sure what he's going to do next. He's pretty mad. Argh. So frustrating. I'm so glad my family's not like this.
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And hell, it's not like you're going to ask anyone to pass the homosexual the gravy. It'd go straight to yer thighs;)
Incidentally, it looks like his sister accepts him more than their mother does, but is afraid of going outside the delineated opinion. But you've much more of a handle on this than I do. Just an observation:)
I'm so very, very glad my mother's not like this.
And some of us go licking boys...
I plan to fart *A LOT* in the White House.
inlaws from hell
AKA Outlaws.
"Well, I really wanted to come, but if you want to drive me away, I guess you're going to drive me away. Family obviously isn't important as you say it is."
That's a start.
On the other hand, where's the destination? Go, get a hotel room, and when they pull the bullshit, feed them the line and spend the rest of the time somewhere fun away from the drama.
And although you'd think that ploy would work, I can guarantee you it wouldn't - they'd still blame him for asking to bring me in the first place, so it's not *their* fault, it's *his*. Trust me - even hearing one side of the conversation, it's obvious they think that allowing me to come is "endorsing his choices."
Traditional Filipino Catholics - these are not easily swayed people. I mean, his mother had a heart attack after seeing a picture of two men kissing. A literal, honest-to-goodness heart attack. Hospital stay and everything.
tell them i was the alternative
Suddenly you come up roses!
Sigh. And this is why i have never told my parents i was gay. i know it would just make endless drama. even if they accepted it! mom would be pissed for not telling her sooner. and god forbid she found out my last boyfriend was black! Holy hell!
so yeah umm I would suggest giving them more time to adjust and go see your family and friends. maybe he could see his on new years or something to diffuse things or something
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AND STOP IN FOR DESERT OR SOMETHING WITH THE INLAWS