October 21st, 2003


Great. I'm a dwarf.

Which Fantasy/SciFi Character Are You?


With a hearty attitude and a gruff yet caring demeanor, you are staunchly dedicated to fighting the good fight.

Nobody tosses a Dwarf!

Gimli is a character in the Middle-Earth universe. He has a featured biography page at TheOneRing.net.


When I took the test a second time, I was Captain Kirk. I don't know whether that's better or worse.
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Some good news

Just checked in with Lynda before her meeting with Dad's doctors, and he's off the respirator. They think it was because of the pain medication he was on (which they'd actually said they weren't going to give him anymore, but evidently someone gave it to him after Mom left last night). He's fine now, although still in ICU. I'll get another call after the meeting for the details.

Susan also called last night after I talked to Lynda and said the hospital kept asking about his living will. Mom and I remember he filled one out when he was there the first time, but neither of us remembered the details. I told them to get a copy for themselves and make sure one was in his cart. Oddly, I'm pretty sure that Dad doesn't want to be put on a respirator at all, but it turns out it was the best thing to do, and was only temporary. They all need to sit down and figure it out.

Mom also called and of course was just short of hysterical. She was blaming herself for not being there, but I told her it didn't make a difference - it was going to happen whether she was there or not. She also kept saying, "How do people get through this?" and I pointed out that she's been doing it for the past six months - it's a day by day thing, and she's still going. It still sounds like she needs help (and I empathize). I told her to get another prescription for valium to help her sleep if she needs it.

I'm a little irked at the hospital for the medication confusion and the living will issue, but at least for now we've got a handle on things.

I talked to Annamarie today about it, and she's fine with me taking off at a moment's notice for however long I need. She said I might be able to use some of my sick time instead of all my vacation (which is a concern if I want to go home at Christmas and still have time left over for G'con and Pennsic next year). I looked into the employee catastrophic fund, but that only kicks in after I've used up all my own vacation time. Myke and John reiterated loaning me money to get me home, which is likely if I want to do it sooner rather than later.

So do I go home this weekend, or shoot for Nov. 8 like I had originally thought? I think I'll wait to hear what happens at the meeting before deciding.
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Another update

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So basically he's still in ICU because he's so weak (he's just getting nutrition, no solid food), but everything looks good. Susan, fatalist that she is, says he's giving up because he thinks he's a burden on Mom, but Lynda (who has said the same thing) said he looked ok, he was asking questions, he just looks tired.

On that note, I'm not in a panic about going immediately this weekend, but I'm still anxious to go very soon. I'll play it by ear.
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