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Hi Alan,

Let's revisit the facts:

1. I never "quit" the board. After I told you that I would now have more time to devote to my duties, now that school was over, you announced to everyone that I would be leaving the committee and I chose not to argue.

2. I never "quit" as webmaster. After I told you that I would be happy to maintain the site, you announced to everyone that I would be leaving and I chose not to argue.

3. Yudi did not "fall a bit behind". He didn't touch the site for 5 months.

4. The site is again out-of-date. Is Yudi going to wait another 5 months?

You can resent what you like. My complaints are accurate. If the truth hurts, change it. Don't shoot the messenger.



Your facts don't seem to jive with my facts. For the latter half of 2002 you attended all but I believe one Executive Committee meeting. We had a discussion about this, and you said you wanted to quit the board, and we asked you to stay on to continue to give input and be webmaster. At the end of 2002 when we talked about who wanted to continue on the board for 2003, you did not express interest. If I "announced to everyone" that you would be leaving the board and you "chose not to argue," then you did, indeed, quit the board and your duties as webmaster. If you had wanted to stay on, why didn't you speak up? Between previously announcing your intentions to quit the board and "not arguing" when it was time to run again, how is it that you seem to think you didn't quit? If you have questions about any of this you're free to pose them directly to the board.

Furthermore, no one is arguing that Yudi fell behind. The board knew this, and it was discussed at several board meetings. If you have a problem with the way the website is run, again, you are free to send your concerns to the board, or you are welcome to attend a board meeting. But could you please explain to me why you are bringing up spurious charges of nepotism? What does that have to do with the running of the website?

Your attitude is quite surprising.

- Alan

I will end this discussion right now for exactly the same reasons I did not want to argue with you in the first place. I don't want a cat fight over this stupid issue.
I don't want to be the Majarincess of the Long Yang Club. I just want the club to survive according to protocol and see its business conducted in the light of day.
Say what you will. I know the truth and so do you. Lying about it will not change the facts.


So now I'm a liar? Wonderful. If you "didn't want to get into this in the first place" then why did you throw meaningless accusations into your othewise perfectly valid concern about keeping the website updated?

The club is thriving and will continue to do so, and the board will continue to oversee things according to our bylaws. I'm sorry you feel differently, but if you have any comments (such as doing things "in the light of day") I suggest you send them to the board.

- Alan


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Jan. 14th, 2004 11:55 pm (UTC)
Re: thanks for adding me
Well that'll get ya reported to LJ TOS. Thanks for the ammo, stupid!
Jan. 14th, 2004 06:35 pm (UTC)
I've had it. Give me this asshole's contact information and I will put him down so fast he'll wonder why the dirt never tasted so good. Fucking piece of dung-heap. I will fuck him up so bad he won't know which end is his own ass. Bitch.
Jan. 15th, 2004 10:11 am (UTC)
You're so cute when you get riled up. :D Not to worry - the board is on top of things, and I don't really care anymore, since I know everything he's saying isn't true, and thankfully the other members of the board were around to witness it as well.
Jan. 15th, 2004 05:31 am (UTC)
God, Esprix this guy sounds like a huge ass. One of those who didn't want to do the project in the first place and gave it up but now wants to bitch and moan to everybody about how much better it was when he did it.

If at all possible I would avoid him and leave him with his bitterness.
Jan. 15th, 2004 10:10 am (UTC)
Bingo on the kind of person he is. Thankfully he rarely comes to events anymore (and this may stop him from coming completely, with any luck). We are slowly weeding out the deadwood in the group, starting with the guys we call "sharks" - predatory, lurid old men who are only in the club to hit on young Asian guys. We have had a really bad reputation as an "old rice queen's club" for a long, long time, but I'm happy to say that, thanks to our efforts over the past couple of years, the group has grown to a mailing list of over 500 and we have a very different kind of crowd hanging out with us now (including an abundance of happy couples). Sadly our reputation with those outside the club seems to persist, but we're doing what we can.
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