I'm not taking delight in their misery, but I am amused that they felt comfortable enough to reveal their feelings to me. In all cases, though, the ship between us had sailed, and we'd both moved on. It's still nice to hear, though, that you're missed and appreciated, even if you weren't at the time. (For the record, for my entire dating life, I've dumped maybe a half a dozen guys - ALL the rest dumped me, including this most recent, so yeah, it's kind of sweet on my ears to hear...)