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Drama!
It is a disquieting feeling to discover that an entire group of people that I thought were friends have been lambasting and criticizing me behind my back based on assumptions and miscommunications without ever once talking to me directly about their concerns (and I would have gladly discussed them with them if they had). I do not care for this feeling, so now I feel a need to make some changes, and soon.

(To those who have the bones to talk to me like a person, I salute you and you have my respect - thank you.)

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toll_booth
Feb. 4th, 2014 02:57 am (UTC)
There are fewer deeds more cowardly than spreading rumors about someone while not addressing the concerns with that person.
esprix
Feb. 4th, 2014 04:24 am (UTC)
Apparently because someone else (who everyone knows is *nothing* like me) was doing things before I showed up, and because I said something similar to what he said, they've all assumed I have the same motives and will try the same things he did, so they've all turned against me. These people have known me for over 2 years, and just flipped a switch and now are disparaging me behind my back. I'm aghast at their childish behavior.
toll_booth
Feb. 4th, 2014 06:43 am (UTC)
Wow. That's just lame X 1000.
esprix
Feb. 5th, 2014 10:15 pm (UTC)
Yep.
unclrashid
Feb. 4th, 2014 05:43 am (UTC)
To paraphrase Patti Stanger (Millionaire Matchmaker) "Honey, your friend-o-meter needs a little adjustment!
esprix
Feb. 5th, 2014 10:15 pm (UTC)
Apparently.
howlin_wolf_66
Feb. 4th, 2014 01:36 pm (UTC)
Hope you're able to weed out the backstabbers.


esprix
Feb. 5th, 2014 10:16 pm (UTC)
Workin' on it. :D
ebenbrooks
Feb. 4th, 2014 05:12 pm (UTC)
Oh, lieber Gott in Himmelreich. I am so sorry. What morons.
esprix
Feb. 5th, 2014 10:16 pm (UTC)
Oh, they'll learn. I'm probably now going to abandon the project they originally asked for my help on. They'll survive, but it'll be a lot harder without my expertise, and I'm OK with that. :D
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